Should You Tell Your Tinder Match You Smoke Cannabis?

Cannabis use while dating

Cannabis is now legal in a number of US states, as well as Canada and Uruguay. Some other countries have decriminalized the drug or turn a blind eye to its use or possession of small amounts.

However, just because cannabis is legal where you live, or the authorities really don’t care about its use, doesn’t mean that everyone participates or even approves of it.

This raises some questions when it comes to online dating on platforms such as Tinder. If you are a regular cannabis user, should you tell your Tinder match you smoke Cannabis? If so, when is the appropriate time to tell them? And how do you even approach the subject?

Tinder doesn’t help much in this regard. When building your Tinder profile, the questions on the app don’t address cannabis use. Even if they did, some users would probably avoid that question, as people aren’t generally fine with disclosing such information on public profiles.

There are ways to handle this dilemma, and we have you covered. Read on for tips on how to navigate this situation. Who knows, you may even find your perfect match by sharing your secret.

Should you even disclose your cannabis use to your Tinder match?

Whether to tell your Tinder match you smoke cannabis depends on a number of things.

  1. First, ask yourself how important it is that your potential partner approves your cannabis use.
  2. Is cannabis a part of your daily life?
  3. Will having a partner who has a problem with your habit be a major barrier to the relationship?

If you answer yes to these questions, you’ll definitely want to raise the issue with your Tinder Match.

Next, think about how important it is to you that your potential partner also smokes cannabis. This can be a boon if she/he does, considering that you can enjoy the experience together. Experts tell us that cannabis can promote strong connections between romantic partners.

Cannabis in relationships. Source

If cannabis is legal where you live, having cannabis as a shared habit could make you a stronger couple. Thus, if you’re a heavy user, you may want to try finding a Tinder match who also shares your love for cannabis, and this means you’ll need to broach the subject sooner or later.

When should you tell your Tinder match you smoke cannabis?

In most things in life, timing matters — It’s no different here. Thus, if you’ve decided to tell your Tinder match you smoke cannabis, it’s also important to think about when you should bring it up.

Too early is unnecessary: you don’t need to bring it up in the first few messages. Putting it in your Tinder profile is overkill, and may put off even suitable matches. Data shows that mentioning weed on your Tinder profile significantly reduces your number of matches. However, leaving it undisclosed for too late may risk doing so too far down the path. Such a move probably won’t work, and you might end up wasting everyone’s time.

It’s best to drop hints here and there. A few light questions about your Tinder match’s views about cannabis issues might give you a hint on when to disclose your habit. Raising the topic in any light manner, such as stories of friends’ cannabis conquests, college stories, and the like without lingering on it, can easily help you gauge your match and decide if and when to tell them.

How should you tell your Tinder match you smoke cannabis?

When you do decide to raise your cannabis use to your Tinder match, it’s important to prepare for how you’ll explain it to them. This is most important if your match doesn’t use cannabis, or if you get the feeling they have negative views against the drug.

In order to communicate this most effectively, it’s a good idea to have a clear answer to why you smoke cannabis. Knowing why you smoke helps you communicate this to your partner, which will help them understand your choice as opposed to simply viewing you as a “stoner”.

There are many reasons why people smoke. For example:

  • Some find it easier to socialise while high, and so effectively use cannabis as a social lubricant.
  • Others find cannabis calming in stressful situations, or in order to help them sleep.
  • Some may use it as a way to bond with friends or loved ones.
  • Of course, many use cannabis for medicinal purposes.

Whatever your reason or reasons may be, being clear on these ahead of any discussion is important. Keep in mind that cannabis use doesn’t make you irresponsible, and most people agree. Those that don’t agree are a lot less than those that do, and even less than those who are on the fence. This means the vast majority of people don’t outright forbid cannabis use.

Cannabis and responsibility. Source

Those hints you dropped on prior occasions to gauge your Tinder match’s cannabis views will come in very handy here. They’ll help you determine how to ease into the conversation. It’s best to stay subtle though, regardless of their views — mention cannabis in general, see how they react, and use this as a segue into talking about your own cannabis use. Remember to frame it all around why you smoke cannabis — your valid reasons are key to helping your Tinder match understand.

Final words

Knowing if, when, and how to tell your Tinder match that you smoke cannabis can be a difficult subject. However, by taking a little care you can easily navigate this minefield. Who knows? Your match might be against it, but still understand your reasons behind it and accept you. Or your match might decide you’re not the one, in which case you’ve saved both of you some valuable time and energy. Or, your partner might be a cannabis lover like you, and you both get to live happily ever after. Whatever the case may be, there’s only one way to find out.

Published by Neil

Neil believes Cannabis has medical benefits and should be prescribed by a Doctor. This site aims to provide accurate information on the science and legality of Cannabis so you can make informed decisions.

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